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day in the subway
Hmm, so this might be the only blog that I can post to at the moment due to the great and almighty firewall of china. I can't access xanga and usage of spaces.live is spotty.
So today i'm in line for the x-ray machine at the subway when i overhear the operator call out to the girl that was ahead of me wondering what is this specific thing inside her bag. the girl goes, o that's just a fruit knife, usually something the length of one's pinky. the cop pulls out this blade that's at least four inches long, and instantly my mind flashed to crocodile dundee's line "that's not a knife, this is a knife"
yah fun times in beijing...the girl swears she didn't know she was supposed to carry something like that through an x-ray machine, they don't check what you're carrying btw, so she could have taken it with her if it was in her pockets.
fun times
So today i'm in line for the x-ray machine at the subway when i overhear the operator call out to the girl that was ahead of me wondering what is this specific thing inside her bag. the girl goes, o that's just a fruit knife, usually something the length of one's pinky. the cop pulls out this blade that's at least four inches long, and instantly my mind flashed to crocodile dundee's line "that's not a knife, this is a knife"
yah fun times in beijing...the girl swears she didn't know she was supposed to carry something like that through an x-ray machine, they don't check what you're carrying btw, so she could have taken it with her if it was in her pockets.
fun times
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Guts
by Chuck Palahniuk
Take in as much air as you can. This story should last about as long as you can hold your breath, and then just a little bit longer. So listen as fast as you can.
A friend of mine, when he was 13 years old he heard about "pegging." This is when a guy gets banged up the butt with a dildo. Stimulate the prostate gland hard enough, and the rumor is you can have explosive hands-free orgasms. At that age, this friend's a little sex maniac. He's always jonesing for a better way to get his rocks off. He goes out to buy a carrot and some petroleum jelly. To conduct a little private research. Then he pictures how it's going to look at the supermarket checkout counter, the lonely carrot and petroleum jelly rolling down the conveyer belt toward the grocery store cashier. All the shoppers waiting in line, watching. Everyone seeing the big evening he has planned.
So my friend, he buys milk and eggs and sugar and a carrot, all the ingredients for a carrot cake. And Vaseline.
Like he's going home to stick a carrot cake up his butt.
At home, he whittles the carrot into a blunt tool. He slathers it with grease and grinds his ass down on it. Then, nothing. No orgasm. Nothing happens except it hurts.
Then, this kid, his mom yells it's supper time. She says to come down, right now.
He works the carrot out and stashes the slippery, filthy thing in the dirty clothes under his bed.
After dinner, he goes to find the carrot, and it's gone. All his dirty clothes, while he ate dinner, his mom grabbed them all to do laundry. No way could she not find the carrot, carefully shaped with a paring knife from her kitchen, still shiny with lube and stinky.
This friend of mine, he waits months under a black cloud, waiting for his folks to confront him. And they nev¬er do. Ever. Even now that he's grown up, that invisible carrot hangs over every Christmas dinner, every birthday party. Every Easter egg hunt with his kids, his parents' grandkids, that ghost carrot is hovering over all of them. That something too awful to name.
People in France have a phrase: "staircase wit." In French: esprit de l'escalier. It means that moment when you find the answer, but it's too late. Say you're at a par¬ty and someone insults you. You have to say something. So under pressure, with everybody watching, you say something lame. But the moment you leave the party....
As you start down the stairway, then-magic. You come up with the perfect thing you should've said. The perfect crippling put-down.
That’s the spirit of the stairway.
The trouble is, even the French don't have a phrase for the stupid things you actually do say under pressure. Those stupid, desperate things you actually think or do.
Some deeds are too low to even get a name. Too low to even get talked about.
Looking back, kid-psych experts, school counselors now say that most of the last peak in teen suicide was kids trying to choke while they beat off. Their folks would find them, a towel twisted around their kid's neck, the towel tied to the rod in their bedroom closet, the kid dead. Dead sperm every¬where. Of course the folks cleaned up. They put some pants on their kid. They made it look ... better. Intentional at least. The regular kind of sad teen suicide.
Another friend of mine, a kid from school, his older brother in the Navy said how guys in the Middle East jack off different than we do here. This brother was stationed in some camel country where the public market sells what could be fancy letter openers. Each fancy tool is just a thin rod of pol¬ished brass or silver, maybe as long as your hand, with a big tip at one end, ei¬ther a big metal ball or the kind of fan¬cy carved handle you'd see on a sword. This Navy brother says how Arab guys get their dick hard and then insert this metal rod inside the whole length of their boner. They jack off with the rod inside, and it makes getting off so much better. More intense.
It's this big brother who travels around the world, sending back French phrases. Russian phrases. Helpful jack-off tips.
After this, the little brother, one day he doesn't show up at school. That night, he calls to ask if I'll pick up his homework for the next couple weeks. Because he's in the hospital.
He's got to share a room with old people getting their guts worked on. He says how they all have to share the same television. All he's got for privacy is a curtain. His folks don't come and visit. On the phone, he says how right now his folks could just kill his big brother in the Navy.
On the phone, the kid says how-the day before-he was just a little stoned. At home in his bedroom, he was flopped on the bed. He was lighting a candle and flipping through some old porno magazines, getting ready to beat off. This is after he's heard from his Navy brother. That helpful hint about how Arabs beat off. The kid looks around for something that might do the job. A ballpoint pen's too big. A pencil's too big and rough. But dripped down the side of the candle, there's a thin, smooth ridge of wax that just might work. With just the tip of one finger, this kid snaps the long ridge of wax off the candle. He rolls it smooth between the palms of his hands. Long and smooth and thin.
Stoned and horny, he slips it down inside, deeper and deeper into the piss slit of his boner. With a good hank of the wax still poking out the top, he gets to work.
Even now, he says those Arab guys are pretty damn smart. They've totally reinvented jacking off. Flat on his back in bed, things are getting so good, this kid can't keep track of the wax. He's one good squeeze from shooting his wad when the wax isn't sticking out anymore.
The thin wax rod, it's slipped inside. All the way inside. So deep inside he can't even feel the lump of it inside his piss tube.
From downstairs, his mom shouts it's supper time. She says to come down, right now. This wax kid and the carrot kid are different people, but we all live pretty much the same life.
It's after dinner when the kid's guts start to hurt. It's wax, so he figured it would just melt inside him and he'd pee it out. Now his back hurts. His kid¬neys. He can't stand straight.
This kid talking on the phone from his hospital bed, in the background you can hear bells ding, people scream¬ing. Game shows.
The X-rays show the truth, some¬thing long and thin, bent double inside his bladder. This long, thin V inside him, it's collecting all the minerals in his piss. It's getting bigger and rougher, coated with crystals of calci¬um, it's bumping around, ripping up the soft lining of his bladder, blocking his piss from getting out. His kidneys are backed up. What little that leaks out his dick is red with blood.
This kid and his folks, his whole fam¬ily, them looking at the black X-ray with the doctor and the nurses stand¬ing there, the big V of wax glowing white for everybody to see, he has to tell the truth. The way Arabs get off. What his big brother wrote him from the Navy.
On the phone, right now, he starts to cry.
They paid for the bladder operation with his college fund. One stupid mis¬take, and now he'll never be a lawyer.
Sticking stuff inside yourself. Stick¬ing yourself inside stuff. A candle in your dick or your head in a noose, we knew it was going to be big trouble.
What got me in trouble, I called it Pearl Diving. This meant whacking off underwater, sitting on the bottom at the deep end of my parents' swimming pool. With one deep breath, I'd kick my way to the bottom and slip off my swim trucks. I'd sit down there for two, three, four minutes.
Just from jacking oft' I had huge lung capacity. If I had the house to myself, I'd do this all afternoon. After I'd finally pump out my stuff, my sperm, it would hang there in big, fat, milky gobs.
After that was more diving, to catch it all. To collect it and wipe each hand¬ful in a towel. That's why it was called Pearl Diving. Even with chlorine, there was my sister to worry about. Or, Christ almighty, my mom.
That used to be my worst fear in the world: my teenage virgin sister, think¬ing she's just getting fat, then giving birth to a two-headed, retard baby. Both heads looking just like me. Me, the father and the uncle. In the end, it's never what you worry about that gets you.
The best part of Pearl Diving was the inlet port for the swimming pool filter and the circulation pump. The best part was getting naked and sit¬ting on it.
As the French would say, Who doesn't like getting their butt sucked? Still, one minute you're just a kid getting off, and the next minute you'll never be a lawyer.
One minute I'm settling on the pool bottom and the sky is wavy, light blue through eight feet of water above my head. The world is silent except for the heartbeat in my ears. My yellow¬striped swim trunks are looped around my neck for safe keeping, just in case a friend, a neighbor, anybody shows up to ask why I skipped foot¬ball practice. The steady suck of the pool inlet hole is lapping at me and I'm grinding my skinny white ass around on that feeling.
One minute I've got enough air and my dick's in my hand. My folks are gone at their work and my sister's got ballet. Nobody's supposed to be home for hours.
My hand brings me right to getting off, and I stop. I swim up to catch an¬other big breath. I dive down and settle on the bottom.
I do this again and again.
This must be why girls want to sit on your face. The suction is like taking a dump that never ends. My dick hard and getting my butt eaten out, I do not need air. My heartbeat in my ears, I stay under until bright stars of light start worming around in my eyes. My legs straight out, the back of each knee rubbed raw against the concrete bot¬tom. My toes are turning blue, my toes and fingers wrinkled from being so long in the water.
And then I let it happen. The big white gobs start spouting. The pearls. It's then I need some air. But when I go to kick off against the bottom, I can't. I can't get my feet under me. My ass is stuck.
Emergency paramedics will tell you that every year about 150 people get stuck this way, sucked by a circulation pump. Get your long hair caught, or your ass, and you're going to drown. Every year, tons of people do. Most of them in Florida.
People just don't talk about it. Not even French people talk about everything. Getting one knee up, getting one foot tucked under me, I get to half standing when I feel the tug against my butt. Get¬ting my other foot under me, I kick off against the bottom. I'm kicking free, not touching the concrete, but not getting to the air, either.
Still kicking water, thrashing with both arms, I'm maybe halfway to the surface but not going higher. The heartbeat in¬side my head getting loud and fast.
The bright sparks of light crossing and crisscrossing my eyes, I turn and look back ... but it doesn't make sense. This thick rope, some kind of snake, blue¬white and braided with veins, has come up out of the pool drain and it's holding on to my butt. Some of the veins are leaking blood, red blood that looks black underwater and drifts away from little rips in the pale skin of the snake. The blood trails away, disappearing in the water, and inside the snake's thin, blue¬white skin you can see lumps of some half-digested meal.
That's the only way this makes sense. Some horrible sea monster, a sea serpent, something that's never seen the light of day, it's been hiding in the dark bottom of the pool drain, waiting to eat me.
So ...I kick at it, at the slippery, rub¬bery knotted skin and veins of it, and more of it seems to pull out of the pool drain. It's maybe as long as my leg now, but still holding tight around my butt¬hole. With another kick, I'm an inch closer to getting another breath. Still feeling the snake tug at my ass, I'm an inch closer to my escape.
Knotted inside the snake, you can see corn and peanuts. You can see a long bright-orange ball. It's the kind of horse¬pill vitamin my dad makes me take, to help put on weight. To get a football scholarship. With extra iron and omega¬three fatty acids.
It's seeing that vitamin pill that saves my life.
It's not a snake. It's my large intestine, my colon pulled out of me. What doctors call prolapsed. It's my guts sucked into the drain.
Paramedics will tell you a swimming pool pump pulls 80 gallons of water every minute. That's about 400 pounds of pressure. The big problem is we're all connected together inside. Your ass is just the far end of your mouth. If I let go, the pump keeps working-unravel¬ing my insides-until it's got my tongue. Imagine taking a 400-pound shit and you can see how this might turn you inside out.
What I can tell you is your guts don't feel much pain. Not the way your skin feels pain. The stuff you're digesting, doctors call it fecal matter. Higher up is chyme, pockets of a thin, runny mess studded with corn and peanuts and round green peas.
That's all this soup of blood and corn, shit and sperm and peanuts floating around me. Even with my guts unravel¬ing out my ass, me holding on to what's left, even then my first want is to some¬how get my swimsuit back on.
God forbid my folks see my dick.
My one hand holding a fist around my ass, my other hand snags my yellow¬striped swim trunks and pulls them from around my neck. Still, getting into them is impossible.
You want to feel your intestines, go buy a pack of those lambskin condoms. Take one out and unroll it. Pack it with peanut butter. Smear it with petroleum jelly and hold it under water. Then try to tear it. Try to pull it in half. It's too tough and rubbery. It's so slimy you can't hold on.
A lambskin condom, that's just plain old intestine.
You can see what I'm up against.
You let go for a second and you're gutted.
You swim for the surface, for a breath, and you're gutted.
You don't swim and you drown.
It's a choice between being dead right now or a minute from right now.
What my folks will find after work is a big naked fetus, curled in on itself. Floating in the cloudy water of their backyard pool. Tethered to the bottom by a thick rope of veins and twisted guts. The opposite of a kid hanging himself to death while he jacks off. This is the baby they brought home from the hospital 13 years ago. Here's the kid they hoped would snag a football schol¬arship and get an MBA. Who'd care for them in their old age. Here's all their hopes and dreams. Floating here, naked and dead. All around him, big milky pearls of wasted sperm.
Either that or my folks will find me wrapped in a bloody towel, collapsed halfway from the pool to the kitchen tele¬phone, the ragged, torn scrap of my guts still hanging out the leg of my yellow¬striped swim trunks.
What even the French won't talk about.
That big brother in the Navy, he taught us one other good phrase. A Russian phrase. The way we say, "I need that like I need a hole in my head...," Russian people say, "I need that like I need teeth in my asshole......
Mne eto nado kak zuby v zadnitse.
Those stories about how animals caught in a trap will chew off their leg, well, any coyote would tell you a couple bites beats the hell out of being dead.
Hell ... even if you're Russian, someday you just might want those teeth.
Otherwise, what you have to do is¬you have to twist around. You hook one elbow behind your knee and pull that leg up into your face. You bite and snap at your own ass. You run out of air and you will chew through anything to get that next breath.
It's not something you want to tell a girl on the first date. Not if you expect a kiss good night. If I told you how it tasted, you would never, ever again eat calamari.
It's hard to say what my parents were more disgusted by: how I'd got in trou¬ble or how I'd saved myself. After the hospital, my mom said, "You didn't know what you were doing, honey. You were in shock." And she learned how to cook poached eggs.
All those people grossed out or feeling sorry for me....
I need that like I need teeth in my asshole.
Nowadays, people always tell me I look too skinny. People at dinner parties get all quiet and pissed off when I don't eat the pot roast they cooked. Pot roast kills me. Baked ham. Anything that hangs around inside my guts for longer than a couple of hours, it comes out still food. Home-cooked lima beans or chunk light tuna fish, I'll stand up and find it still sitting there in the toilet.
After you have a radical bowel resec¬tioning, you don't digest meat so great. Most people, you have five feet of large intestine. I'm lucky to have my six inch¬es. So I never got a football scholarship. Never got an MBA. Both my friends, the wax kid and the carrot kid, they grew up, got big, but I've never weighed a pound more than I did that day when I was 13.
Another big problem was my folks paid a lot of good money for that swim¬ming pool. In the end my dad just told the pool guy it was a dog. The family dog fell in and drowned. The dead body got pulled into the pump. Even when the pool guy cracked open the filter casing and fished out a rubbery tube, a watery hank of intestine with a big orange vita¬min pill still inside, even then my dad just said, "That dog was fucking nuts."
Even from my upstairs bedroom window, you could hear my dad say, "We couldn't trust that dog alone for a second...."
Then my sister missed her period.
Even after they changed the pool water, after they sold the house and we moved to another state, after my sister's abortion, even then my folks never men¬tioned it again.
Ever.
That is our invisible carrot.
You. Now you can take a good, deep breath.
I still have not.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Shape of Days ~ Archived from Xanga
“Because I don’t give my phone number to strange men,” she said, fire in her eyes.
That
was the answer. I don’t have to tell you the question. We’ve all been
there. We’ve all heard this story a million times before. But I’m going
to go back and tell you how it started, because context matters, man.
Context is important.
Context is what’s going to keep me from looking like a complete jackass when you learn how this all turned out.
Rebecca
isn’t one of those sexy names. It’s hard to say “Rebecca” in a flirty
way. You can’t really imagine yourself crying out “Rebecca!” in the
heat of … well, whatever. Rebecca’s not a sexy name.
But God. She made up for it.
She
had this smile. I don’t know how to describe it. There are all these
clichés. A smile that lit up the room. Smiling from ear to ear. Blah
blah blah. It’s all nonsense. Just empty words.
Rebecca’s smile
is indescribable. Literally. It cannot be described. You have to see it
to understand it. It’s like … when she smiles, pure joy just surges out
of her eyes and hits you full in the face, like being sprayed with a
riot-control firehose wielded by puppies and kittens. And that’s just
the side-effect. That’s just what it feels like to be in the room when
she does it.
When she turns that smile on you, full blast …
It’s like seeing the face of God.
The
first time she ever smiled at me, I wanted to call in sick the next
day. I wanted to call in sick and get on a plane and fly to Tibet or
wherever the hell it is and climb Mt. Everest. And when I got to the
top, I wanted to carve her name into the glacier where it would exist
for all eternity.
Do they even have glaciers on top of Mt.
Everest? I don’t know. Whatever. I wanted to name a river after her. Or
plant a flag with her picture on it on Mars. Or discover some new
species of glorious bird and name it after her.
It took about
three seconds for me to decide that I would do anything in the world
for her. I’d cross an ocean, found a republic, raise up an army,
anything at all.
I was nine years old.
We were in the
fourth grade. Rebecca was a transfer student from out of state. We were
halfway through our unit on fractions when there was a knock at the
door. The assistant principal — somebody I knew all too well after that
little incident in the cafeteria the previous fall — opened the door
and led her in.
You know that scene in the movies where
everything goes into slow motion and some cheesy 80s love song plays on
the soundtrack? It’s supposed to be a joke, but I swear to God, that’s
exactly what it was like. I got dizzy. The room spun. “Class,” Mrs.
Emerson said, “this is Rebecca … Rebecca … Rebecca.”
She was
shy. God, she was shy. I could just see it, the way she kept her eyes
on her shoes the whole time. The way she clutched her Bionic Woman
Trapper Keeper to her chest as if she was trying to hide behind it. The
way a lock of honey-brown hair came loose from her barrette and fell in
front of her face and she didn’t brush it out of the way.
There
were a lot of empty seats in our classroom. Our school was built in the
50s, during that postwar boom when it seemed like everybody in the
country was having kids as fast as possible. There were enough desks
for at least thirty kids, but there couldn’t have been more than
twenty-five of us.
There were a lot of empty seats in the room.
One of them was beside me.
I
prayed. I honest-to-God prayed. And when Mrs. Emerson spoke, it sounded
like the teacher in those Charlie Brown cartoons, all muted horns and
no words.
She came over and sat down.
Next to me.
That’s when it sunk in. What Mrs. Emerson said. She’d said, “Rebecca, you can sit next to Andrew.”
Thank you, God.
She
put her Trapper Keeper on the desk, opened it with a velcro explosion.
Some of the other kids snickered. She turned bright pink, looked
straight down into her lap. My heart broke a little bit.
Then it
was back to fractions, two-thirds of this and five-sevenths of that —
who the hell measures out five sevenths of something, anyway?
To
this day, I’m convinced that I blew the math portion of my SATs because
I spent the entire unit on fractions staring wide-eyed at Rebecca
Galloway.
“Mom,” I said in what I guess in retrospect was a pretty whiney voice. “Can you take me to the store tonight?”
“What for?” she mumbled, not looking up from the Ladies’ Home Journal or whatever she was reading.
“Andy wants to buy a butt brush to wash his butt!”
“Shut up, Steven!”
“Andrew, don’t tell your brother to shut up.”
“Yes, ma’am. But can you take me to the store tonight?”
“What do you need at the store, sweetie?”
“You know,” I said. “School stuff.”
“Butt brush, butt brush, Andy wants a butt brush!”
“Shut up, Steven!” I slugged him in the arm hard enough to raise a goose egg.
“Mooooom!” Stevie whined. “Andy hit me!”
“I don’t blame him,” Mom mumbled.
The next day I showed up to school with a brand new Six Million Dollar Man Trapper Keeper.
Rebecca
totally noticed. She didn’t say anything, or make eye contact with me,
or acknowledge my existence in any way. But she totally noticed.
Recess
was right after lunch. This was back when elementary school playgrounds
were all concrete and wrought iron, before the child-safety people came
through and wrapped everything in foam padding. The kids affectionately
called the jungle gym “the Toothchipper,” and on a sunny day the slide
got hot enough to cause first-degree burns through thick school-uniform
pants.
Kids spent a lot of time making their own fun in those days.
Usually
that involved some kind of physical or psychological torture. The boys
played tag, and the smallest and weakest kid was perpetually It. The
girls did their own thing, hopscotch or double-dutch or whatever girls
did.
Once in a while, a fight would break out.
“Rebecca No-Hair! Rebecca No-Hair!”
It
was the biggest, dumbest kid in our class. Alan, his name was. God, he
was dumb, and he hated everybody. At least he acted like it.
Rebecca
was standing next to the swing, waiting her turn. There was only one
swing, because the other one had a jagged wooden splinter sticking up
out of it that would have sent any kid stupid enough to try it on a
one-way trip to the proctologist. Alan was on the other swing, pulling
himself higher and higher, shouting at the top of his lungs.
“No-Hair, No-Hair, glows in the dark in her un-der-wear!”
It
didn’t make any sense, but it wasn’t supposed to. Maybe Alan thought it
made sense, but as I mentioned, Alan was dumb. You know that thing kids
do where they tell each other that “gullible” isn’t in the dictionary?
He never did figure that one out.
After a couple more verses,
Rebecca started to cry. Not all screamy and snotty like the other
girls. Just silently. Not moving. Hot tears coming down her cheeks.
“Hey, fatass, leave her alone!”
I looked around to see who said that, and realized it was me.
Alan
zeroed in on me with his bully-powered precision-guided laser eyes. He
launched himself off the swings into midair, which would have been
really cool if he hadn’t landed on all fours. He got up, grass stains
on both his knees, and came after me like a kid-seeking missile.
I
got a three-day suspension. So did Alan. But he also got a trip to the
school nurse to get his bloody nose packed. I felt pretty good about
that. Almost good enough to offset the dull ache in my hand from where
his teeth had torn my knuckles up pretty good.
Mom practically
had kittens. She grounded me for a month, which didn’t make all that
much difference because there weren’t any other kids on our street
anyway. I spent the three days in my room reading G.I. Joe comics and
whispering dire and gory threats in Stevie’s ear late at night.
On
Friday, when my suspension was up, I got to school early. Mom was in no
mood for any shenanigans that morning — she’d said so: “I’m in no mood
for any shenanigans, Andrew” — so I got my bike out of the garage and
rode to school.
Most of the kids in my class either walked to
school or rode their bikes. A few took the bus. Rebecca was a bus kid.
She came in just as the first bell rang, the “no, seriously, go inside
and sit down so we can try fruitlessly to teach you something that will
keep you from growing up to be axe murderers” bell. She came in, opened
her Bionic Woman Trapper Keeper, got out a pencil.
“Hi, Andy,” she said.
I
was, at that moment, the stupidest kid in the world. Because instead of
just smiling, all cool, and saying something suave like “Hey, good
lookin’,” I stared at her slack-jawed and said, “What?”
She looked away, letting her hair fall in front of her face again.
“I mean, hi,” I said, scrambling like crazy. “Hi, is what I meant to say.”
And that’s when it happened.
She reached up with one hand, tucked her hair behind her ear, kind of glanced at me out of the corner of her eye … and smiled.
I
bet you think you know what’s coming. We passed notes in class, held
hands at recess, shared a stolen kiss under the mulberry tree on the
way home from school.
None of that happened.
The next
week, Rebecca wasn’t at school. I thought maybe she was sick. But she
didn’t show up the next week either. Or the week after that.
I
asked Mrs. Emerson. This was way before teachers had anything like
ethics or a sense of privacy. “Rebecca and her mother moved away,
Andrew.”
It was a total déjà vu moment. I got tunnel vision. The room spun. I felt dizzy.
Only that time, I got so sick to my stomach I thought I was going to throw up.
We’re
skipping ahead a little now, because the truth is nothing happened for
the next fifteen years. Well, not nothing nothing. I went to high
school, got my driver’s license, smoked some weed, lost my virginity,
graduated (a C-minus average is still passing, thank you very much),
got into a state school, pledged a fraternity, got my degree, got a
job, moved across the country. You know, life.
But none of it was really important.
I
guess one important thing happened. Not important by itself, but
important in the sense that it shapes the rest of the story. See, I
always wanted to be a writer. When I was a kid, I thought I wanted to
write comic books. By the time I grew up, I decided I wanted to write
screenplays, which are basically the same thing only with more money.
So
I got an English degree, which to my dismay had more to do with reading
than writing. And as soon as I threw my cap in the air, before the ink
on my B.A. could dry, I loaded everything I owned into half a dozen
stolen milk crates, packed them in my Honda hatchback and hit the road
for Hollywood, California.
Stupid? You better believe it. I
didn’t have the first idea what I was doing. For a week I actually had
to sleep in my car. Then I waited some tables at an all-night burger
diner in Westwood, made enough to move into a shithole in East Covina.
Life was pretty awful for a while.
But
then things changed. I met a UCLA kid who knew a guy who knew a guy who
got me a P.A. job at Warners. It was a rotten job, mostly delivering
script pages to D-list TV movie stars and getting coffee that no matter
how carefully I followed the instructions I somehow always managed to
mess up. And the money was actually worse than what I made waiting
tables.
But it was work, and it was steady, and it opened doors.
After
a couple of years, I scrabbled my way up the ladder a little bit. I
went from being a production assistant to a production associate, which
is basically the same job only they pay you a little more and yell at
you a lot more. Then I became a production coordinator, and so on, and
so on, and eventually I discovered that I’d gotten myself into a pretty
decent place. I was making enough money that I could afford both an
apartment and a car at the same time, which is a very big deal in L.A.
I had half a dozen screenplays in circulation among friends who swore
they used to be roommates with people who totally work with guys who
know agents. Once in a while, I managed to get into a decent party.
And that’s where it happened.
You
know those houses up on Mulholland, the ones over toward the 101 that
are nice but, you know, not that nice? There’s this producer who lives
over there. Not somebody you’d know, unless you’re in the habit of
reading the credits on unsuccessful TV pilots. But he knew people, and
the people he knew knew other people, so when he threw a party, it
wasn’t an entirely awful place to be.
The previous summer I’d
worked on one of this guy’s shoots, and I met a continuity supervisor
there who one time in the wee hours after an incredibly
out-of-proportion wrap party had drunkenly slurred to me that she would
totally sleep with me if she hadn’t decided to try being a lesbian for
a year to see how it worked out.
A few months later that
continuity supervisor started dating a make-up girl who knew a casting
assistant who lived with an executive assistant at a talent agency on
Sunset, you know the one I mean, and when the invitation to this party
trickled down I decided what the hell.
No, I didn’t take any of
my screenplays with me. But if I said I didn’t think long and hard
about it, you could call me a damn liar.
So we get there, this
house in West Hollywood that had probably sold for five million bucks a
decade ago but that wouldn’t go for more than one point five on the
market today. There are valets, of course, because God, how pathetic
would it be not to have valets? We go in, and it’s just your typical
vapid Hollywood scene. There’s a guy who was on “L.A. Law” for a few
years back when I was in grade school. There’s the girl who married
that big-shot producer and then divorced him when she caught him
casting-couching day-players for “Baywatch.”
And there, over in the corner at the bar talking to a suit in an unbelievably bad hairpiece, is Rebecca Galloway.
Rebecca fucking Galloway.
I
needed a drink, and I needed it bad, and the only way to get it was to
go over to the bar, but that’s the one place in this guy’s house I
can’t possibly go, because that’s where Rebecca fucking Galloway is.
Jesus Christ.
And
this suit. My God. Why do people like that even come to parties like
this? What is he, an insurance salesman? Does he really think he’s got
a snowball’s chance with Rebecca fucking Galloway?
His glass is
empty. He’s chewing open-mouthed on the ice. He turns to the bartender,
and that’s when I see it. That’s when I see Rebecca fucking Galloway
look desperately around for somebody, anybody to rescue her from this
putz.
Sometimes opportunity doesn’t knock, you know? Sometimes it just clinks softly at the glasses.
The
crowd parts for me like I’m Moses and it’s the Red fucking Sea. Next
thing I know I’m at the bar, and the bartender’s looking at me, and I
don’t even want anything any more, but I ask for a Makers on the rocks
and when she hears my voice she turns around and looks at me and
without even recognizing me she’s got this look of utter, blissful
salvation.
And then the moment’s gone, because the fucking
insurance guy’s got his martini-rocks and he actually says to her, “As
I was saying.”
God, who talks like that?
“Excuse me, is it … Reggie?”
I look around to see who said that, and realize it’s me. Like, again.
“Ronald,” he says, sticking out his hand.
“Ronald,
right. Listen, I just came from … over there” — I wave in the general
direction of, like, the entire party — “and … Ian was asking if
anybody’d seen you.”
“Ian?” he says. Then his eyes get big.
“Really?” He turns to Rebecca and pours on the charm. He’s all “Excuse
me, my dear,” and I want to laugh so badly I almost choke on my drink.
And
then he slides off his chair and wanders into the crowd and Rebecca
turns back to the bar and puts her head in her hands and say “Oh,
merciful God!”
She’s shaking. Christ, is she crying? What have I walked into the middle of here? I make half my drink disappear.
“Hey,” I say. “Hey. I … um. Are you okay?”
Hand
on her shoulder. Her bare shoulder. She’s wearing this
halter-dress-thing and it’s red and her shoulder has, like, nothing
covering it at all and then I’m touching it.
She reaches up with
one hand and tucks her hair back behind her ear, and God, I’m nine
years old again. There are tears streaming down her apple-red cheeks,
but not because she’s crying. She’s laughing so hard she can barely
breathe.
“Did you see that?” she stage-whispers between gasps. “Did you see that? I think that guy’s toupee was wearing a toupee!”
The
rest of my drink is gone, and I’m not sure where it went. “Yeah, sorry,
I didn’t mean to, like, interrupt you there. I could see you were
getting your mack on.”
“Oh, you read me like a book,” she says,
eyes sparkling like the room’s filled with a thousand candles. “But you
were just being polite, right? I mean, if Ian wanted to talk to him” –
“Yeah,” I say. “I mean, it must be important.”
“Right,” she says. “If it’s Ian it’s got to be important.”
“Right.”
“Who’s Ian?” she asks all innocent, setting me up and knowing I’m not just gonna fall, I’m gonna run right to the edge and jump.
“No
idea,” I say, and then she’s laughing, and I’m laughing, and when she
stops laughing she’s smiling, and I’m wondering where the nearest
mountain is, and whether it has glaciers on top.
“Excuse me,” I
call to the bartender, who’s been ignoring all this in a way that’s
nothing short of commendable. “Can we get … we’re gonna need” — I look
at Rebecca out of the corner of her eye and she’s smirking at me.
“Could we please have a lot more drinks over here?” I ask. “Thanks.”
Life
stories. Small town in Illinois. Yeah, I know that part, skip ahead.
Parents divorced when she was ten. Okay, that explains a lot. Bounced
around for a few years. Mom settled down and got a good job, moved them
into a house in the burbs. Junior high, made friends. Shopping at the
mall one day when all of a sudden there’s this guy with a business
card, and next thing she knows she’s in a soup commercial. She’s twelve
years old and she’s selling soup.
“You were a soup spokesmodel,” I say.
“Yes.”
“A soupsmodel.”
“Yes,” she says, draining her drink. “Can I finish my story now?”
“Not on an empty stomach,” I say, and I wave to the bartender making the universal gesture for another round.
“Big spender, huh?” she says, cracking an ice cube between her molars.
“Well, it’s an open bar,” I say.
She
just kinda stares at me for a minute, like she can’t believe what I
just said. “Big spender … huh?” she says slowly, carefully enunciating
around each word.
“Are you kidding?” I say. “Like you wouldn’t believe. I throw money around like there’s no tomorrow.”
“Good,” she says, stirring the swizzle stick in the drink that’s just appeared by her elbow. “Where was I?”
“Soupsmodel,” I say.
“Right. Anyway, so there I was, twelve years old, in a nationally televised commercial.”
“For soup,” I say.
“Reggie,” she says.
“Ronald,” I say.
She
smirks. “Clever. Okay, let’s do this the old-fashioned way.” She sits
up straight, sweeps her hair over her shoulder. I almost fall out of my
chair. She holds out her hand. “I’m Rebecca,” she says.
I almost
lose it then. I almost give it all away. But no, I hang on to it by the
skin of my teeth. “Andrew,” I say, taking her hand and never, ever,
ever wanting to let go.
And you know, she’s not exactly racing to let go of mine, either.
Moments
like that feel like they last a lot longer than they really do. We’re
talking like a second here, maybe a second and a half. In the movies it
would be at least ten seconds, long enough for the camera to push in
and the soundtrack to swell. But here, it’s two heartbeats, and it’s
gone.
“Andrew,” she says, “the soup isn’t really an important
part of this story. This story is going to continue, you see, and the
soup isn’t going to be a part of it. The soup, its purpose fulfilled,
is now going to exit gracefully to stage left. Okay?”
“Okay,” I say, and nobody has ever been in love like I am right now.
She
tells me the rest of the story. TV commercial at twelve, another one at
fourteen. Made enough money to tuck away for college, but hardly a big
break into stardom. A degree in broadcast communication, then after
college, the starry lights of the Hollywood way.
“So what do you do now?” I ask her, not giving half a damn, just wanting to watch her mouth as she answers.
Only she doesn’t. She sips her drink instead. “What do you do, Andrew?” she says.
“I asked you first.”
“I asked you most recently.”
And there it is again. That fire in her eyes. Have you ever stood beneath a 10,000-watt klieg light? That’s what it felt like.
“I’m a writer,” I say.
“Uh-huh,” she nods. “And what do you do when you need to pay the rent?”
“Well,”
I say, squaring my shoulders, “I don’t like to blow my own horn. But
I’m a pretty influential production coordinator at a … major motion
picture studio.”
“Really?” she gasps.
“I’m trying to keep it low-key tonight, though.”
“But you’re a very powerful man.”
“I don’t like to blow my own horn.”
“Is
that your way of saying you’re looking for somebody to blow it for
you?” she says. Her eyes go through me like spears, and I’m just a
wriggling fish.
“And what do you do?” I say, operating totally on autopilot at this point.
She
clears her throat, sips her drink again, blows a stray hair out of her
face, basically goes through a petit mal seizure of tics and quirks.
“Lately, mostly recording work,” she says.
“You’re a singer?”
“Only bad karaoke, and only when I’m so drunk I … come to think of it, I’ve never been drunk enough to sing karaoke.”
“Night’s still young.”
“And so are we,” she says.
“You’re changing the subject,” I say.
“I’m trying, but you’re not letting me. What happened to the suave, chivalrous gentleman who saved me from that awful wretch?”
“You forgot powerful.”
“No, I didn’t,” she says. “Not for a second.”
“You’re doing it again,” I say.
“And yet you’re still not letting me.”
I
just let that sit there for a second. Oh, sure, I could pretend I’m
being all cool. But the truth is my mind is completely and utterly
blank. I think I’m literally hypnotized. Any minute now, she’s gonna
have me clucking like a chicken. Or climbing a mountain for her.
Whichever comes first.
“Voiceover work,” she says. “Mostly.”
“You mean like … radio?” I ask.
“Sort of. Television.”
“Are you the girl in the monster truck commercial?”
“If that were the truth, I’d be about a million times less embarrassed than I am right now,” she says.
“It’s like pulling off a band-aid. Just tell me.”
“I dub cartoons,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
“I dub imported cartoons. From other countries.”
“Okay,” I say.
“Mostly from Japan,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
She kinda stares for a minute. “That’s it?” she asks. “Just ‘okay?’”
“Yeah,” I say. “What did you expect me to say?”
“I don’t know, something sarcastic.”
“I’m not sarcastic.”
“You’re incredibly sarcastic.”
“See what I did there? When I said I wasn’t sarcastic, I was being sarcastic.”
“Shut up.”
“Okay.”
For
what must be the fourth time, maybe fifth, her drink is empty. So’s
mine, but I forgot about it a long time ago. She’s playing with the ice
cubes, stacking up against the side of the glass with her swizzle then
knocking them down again.
“You want another?” I ask.
“No,” she says without really thinking about it. “It’s getting late.”
“It’s eleven-thirty.”
“I’ve got a call in the morning,” she says.
At
this point in my life, I want nothing more than to ask her, “Did I do
something wrong?” I’m a profoundly stupid man, but I’m smart enough to
know that that would be a mistake. So I just sit for a minute, not
saying anything, letting her not say anything, wondering whether this
is an uncomfortable silence or a comfortable one.
“It’s getting late,” she says again.
“Want me to walk you out?” I ask. Look, I’m doing the best I can here. Get off my back.
“No, that’s okay,” she says. She opens this microscopic little purse and pulls out her valet ticket.
“Give me your number.”
I look around, but who am I fooling. You’ve heard this joke before.
“What?” she asks, then immediately: “No.”
“Why not?” I ask.
“Because
I don’t give my phone number to strange men,” she says, fire in her
eyes. Fire like a thousand candles, fire like a 10,000-watt klieg lamp,
fire that gets inside my head and burns out every last vestige of
reason or self-awareness.
“I’m not a strange man,” I say to her. “We’ve known each other since we were nine.”
If this were an Old West saloon, the piano player just would have stopped.
“What?” she asks, hitting the T so hard I can feel her breath on my neck from three feet away.
“Rebecca Galloway, from Culverton, Illinois,” I say. “J.F. Pierce elementary. Mrs. Emerson’s class.”
She starts to get it.
“Andy?”
“Andrew now, but yeah.”
“Glows in the dark in her underwear,” she half-whispers.
“Yeah.”
“You kicked that kid’s ass.”
“Got suspended for three days for it, too,” I say.
“I remember,” she says.
“You do?”
“Like it was yesterday,” she says.
I just sort of roll that one around on my tongue for a second.
“I don’t, really,” she says.
“What?”
“Glow in the dark in my underwear. I don’t, really.”
“Oh,” I say.
“I just wanted to tell you that,” she says.
“Okay.”
“I don’t want you to be disappointed.”
Everything sort of goes into slow-motion.
“Are there glaciers on top of Mt. Everest?” I ask.
“I don’t think so,” she says.
“You sure?”
“No,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
From somewhere on the other side of the house, about fifty people all laugh at the same joke.
“Give me a piece of paper,” she says. “Right now, right this second.”
I
fumble in my pockets. There’s a piece of paper, thank holy God above.
No pen. The bartender’s been listening to this whole thing, apparently,
because man, he is right there.
Her hands are shaking a little as she writes her number down. I think she thinks I don’t notice.
My hand’s back in my pocket now. It’s wrapped around that piece of paper like I might never let it go.
“I’m gonna call you,” I say.
“Good,” she says.
“Not tomorrow, though.”
“No?”
“No. I don’t want to be creepy. Not tomorrow. Not the next day.”
“Oh,” she says.
“Maybe this weekend.”
“I’ve got plans this weekend,” she says.
“Do you really?” I ask.
“Does it matter?” she says.
It doesn’t. She knows it, I know it. There’s no point in saying it.
“I’m gonna call you,” I say.
“When?” she says.
“Tonight,” I say. “As soon as I get home. Probably in the car on the way home.”
“Good,” she says.
She
doesn’t say anything else. Neither do I. I can’t think of anything. I
don’t know what her reason is. Anyway, she turns her body without
turning her head. She starts to walk away without looking where she’s
going. She bumps right into this guy. This actor. You’d know him.
Household name. Very, very important guy.
“Oh, excuse me,” he says, standing straight as an arrow and smiling at her like she’s the most important person in the world.
“Uh-huh,” she says, and just keeps walking.
There
wasn’t any point in staying at the party after that. I made an orbit
around the room, saying good night to some people I knew, who
introduced me to people they knew so I had to say good night to them
too.
I went through it all in a fog, with the stupidest grin on my face you’ve ever seen.
Then
I was at the door, making my way past people smoking cigars and
cigarettes and maybe something else. The valet was leaning against the
stand in one of those ubiquitous red jackets that seem to cover a third
of the population of L.A. at any given time. I fished my ticket out of
my pocket, gave it to him, waited while he pulled my old hatchback
around from the very, very remote spot where he’d parked it. I slipped
the guy a bill — I didn’t even look at it; it might have been a fifty
for all I know — got in, and drove off. Headed down Mulholland toward
the 405, windows open in the cool California night.
I didn’t
actually mean what I’d said. I didn’t actually mean that I was going to
call her from the car on the way home. But suddenly, looking out over
the glowing hills as I weaved my way down into the basin, I knew that’s
exactly what I was going to do.
I fumbled for my phone, got it out of my pocket, then reached for the piece of paper with Rebecca’s number on it.
It wasn’t there.
Checked my other pocket. It wasn’t there.
Checked every pocket. It wasn’t there.
That’s when it hit me.
I’d
had exactly one piece of paper in my pocket. Just one. And I’d given it
to her without looking at it. And she’d written her number down without
looking at it either. And then I stuck it back in my pocket without so
much as glancing at it.
And I didn’t look at it when I handed it to the valet, either.
She’d written her number down on my valet stub.
Son
of a bitch. Son of a bitch! I did everything. I yelled. I pounded the
steering wheel. I screamed curse words I hadn’t said since high school.
I think I made up some curse words.
Fifteen years. I’d been in
love with this girl for fifteen years. With absolutely no chance of
ever seeing her again, ever, in my entire life. And then I ran into her
by coincidence at a party I wasn’t even technically invited to.
And I lost her number.
There was just no way this was my life. There was no way this could possibly be real.
It just wasn’t fair.
For
a second, I seriously considered wrenching the wheel over and driving
right off the hillside. I was that angry. Angry at myself, angry at
life. Angry at everything that ever was or that ever would be.
It
wasn’t until I got halfway to Santa Monica that I realized what an
idiot I’d been. I don’t mean for losing her number. Of course that made
me an idiot. But the kind of guy who loses a girl’s number is just a
garden-variety, everyday idiot. Any of us could be that guy.
I was a much bigger idiot than that.
I
tore across four lanes of freeway traffic with just a cursory glance in
my rear-view. Horns and swears, blah blah blah. Blew through the red
light at the exit without realizing it, rolled through the red light at
the onramp without giving a damn. Then back on the freeway, pedal to
the metal, rocketing north toward the Hollywood Hills. Realizing that
was my mountain all along, and that if it didn’t have a glacier at the
top, at least it had a valet with a trash can full of used tickets next
to him. And I didn’t have to carve her name in it myself. It was
already there.
I weaved through traffic, screaming at the cars to get out of my way, laughing at the top of my lungs.
God, this is going to make a great story someday.
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That
was the answer. I don’t have to tell you the question. We’ve all been
there. We’ve all heard this story a million times before. But I’m going
to go back and tell you how it started, because context matters, man.
Context is important.
Context is what’s going to keep me from looking like a complete jackass when you learn how this all turned out.
Rebecca
isn’t one of those sexy names. It’s hard to say “Rebecca” in a flirty
way. You can’t really imagine yourself crying out “Rebecca!” in the
heat of … well, whatever. Rebecca’s not a sexy name.
But God. She made up for it.
She
had this smile. I don’t know how to describe it. There are all these
clichés. A smile that lit up the room. Smiling from ear to ear. Blah
blah blah. It’s all nonsense. Just empty words.
Rebecca’s smile
is indescribable. Literally. It cannot be described. You have to see it
to understand it. It’s like … when she smiles, pure joy just surges out
of her eyes and hits you full in the face, like being sprayed with a
riot-control firehose wielded by puppies and kittens. And that’s just
the side-effect. That’s just what it feels like to be in the room when
she does it.
When she turns that smile on you, full blast …
It’s like seeing the face of God.
The
first time she ever smiled at me, I wanted to call in sick the next
day. I wanted to call in sick and get on a plane and fly to Tibet or
wherever the hell it is and climb Mt. Everest. And when I got to the
top, I wanted to carve her name into the glacier where it would exist
for all eternity.
Do they even have glaciers on top of Mt.
Everest? I don’t know. Whatever. I wanted to name a river after her. Or
plant a flag with her picture on it on Mars. Or discover some new
species of glorious bird and name it after her.
It took about
three seconds for me to decide that I would do anything in the world
for her. I’d cross an ocean, found a republic, raise up an army,
anything at all.
I was nine years old.
We were in the
fourth grade. Rebecca was a transfer student from out of state. We were
halfway through our unit on fractions when there was a knock at the
door. The assistant principal — somebody I knew all too well after that
little incident in the cafeteria the previous fall — opened the door
and led her in.
You know that scene in the movies where
everything goes into slow motion and some cheesy 80s love song plays on
the soundtrack? It’s supposed to be a joke, but I swear to God, that’s
exactly what it was like. I got dizzy. The room spun. “Class,” Mrs.
Emerson said, “this is Rebecca … Rebecca … Rebecca.”
She was
shy. God, she was shy. I could just see it, the way she kept her eyes
on her shoes the whole time. The way she clutched her Bionic Woman
Trapper Keeper to her chest as if she was trying to hide behind it. The
way a lock of honey-brown hair came loose from her barrette and fell in
front of her face and she didn’t brush it out of the way.
There
were a lot of empty seats in our classroom. Our school was built in the
50s, during that postwar boom when it seemed like everybody in the
country was having kids as fast as possible. There were enough desks
for at least thirty kids, but there couldn’t have been more than
twenty-five of us.
There were a lot of empty seats in the room.
One of them was beside me.
I
prayed. I honest-to-God prayed. And when Mrs. Emerson spoke, it sounded
like the teacher in those Charlie Brown cartoons, all muted horns and
no words.
She came over and sat down.
Next to me.
That’s when it sunk in. What Mrs. Emerson said. She’d said, “Rebecca, you can sit next to Andrew.”
Thank you, God.
She
put her Trapper Keeper on the desk, opened it with a velcro explosion.
Some of the other kids snickered. She turned bright pink, looked
straight down into her lap. My heart broke a little bit.
Then it
was back to fractions, two-thirds of this and five-sevenths of that —
who the hell measures out five sevenths of something, anyway?
To
this day, I’m convinced that I blew the math portion of my SATs because
I spent the entire unit on fractions staring wide-eyed at Rebecca
Galloway.
“Mom,” I said in what I guess in retrospect was a pretty whiney voice. “Can you take me to the store tonight?”
“What for?” she mumbled, not looking up from the Ladies’ Home Journal or whatever she was reading.
“Andy wants to buy a butt brush to wash his butt!”
“Shut up, Steven!”
“Andrew, don’t tell your brother to shut up.”
“Yes, ma’am. But can you take me to the store tonight?”
“What do you need at the store, sweetie?”
“You know,” I said. “School stuff.”
“Butt brush, butt brush, Andy wants a butt brush!”
“Shut up, Steven!” I slugged him in the arm hard enough to raise a goose egg.
“Mooooom!” Stevie whined. “Andy hit me!”
“I don’t blame him,” Mom mumbled.
The next day I showed up to school with a brand new Six Million Dollar Man Trapper Keeper.
Rebecca
totally noticed. She didn’t say anything, or make eye contact with me,
or acknowledge my existence in any way. But she totally noticed.
Recess
was right after lunch. This was back when elementary school playgrounds
were all concrete and wrought iron, before the child-safety people came
through and wrapped everything in foam padding. The kids affectionately
called the jungle gym “the Toothchipper,” and on a sunny day the slide
got hot enough to cause first-degree burns through thick school-uniform
pants.
Kids spent a lot of time making their own fun in those days.
Usually
that involved some kind of physical or psychological torture. The boys
played tag, and the smallest and weakest kid was perpetually It. The
girls did their own thing, hopscotch or double-dutch or whatever girls
did.
Once in a while, a fight would break out.
“Rebecca No-Hair! Rebecca No-Hair!”
It
was the biggest, dumbest kid in our class. Alan, his name was. God, he
was dumb, and he hated everybody. At least he acted like it.
Rebecca
was standing next to the swing, waiting her turn. There was only one
swing, because the other one had a jagged wooden splinter sticking up
out of it that would have sent any kid stupid enough to try it on a
one-way trip to the proctologist. Alan was on the other swing, pulling
himself higher and higher, shouting at the top of his lungs.
“No-Hair, No-Hair, glows in the dark in her un-der-wear!”
It
didn’t make any sense, but it wasn’t supposed to. Maybe Alan thought it
made sense, but as I mentioned, Alan was dumb. You know that thing kids
do where they tell each other that “gullible” isn’t in the dictionary?
He never did figure that one out.
After a couple more verses,
Rebecca started to cry. Not all screamy and snotty like the other
girls. Just silently. Not moving. Hot tears coming down her cheeks.
“Hey, fatass, leave her alone!”
I looked around to see who said that, and realized it was me.
Alan
zeroed in on me with his bully-powered precision-guided laser eyes. He
launched himself off the swings into midair, which would have been
really cool if he hadn’t landed on all fours. He got up, grass stains
on both his knees, and came after me like a kid-seeking missile.
I
got a three-day suspension. So did Alan. But he also got a trip to the
school nurse to get his bloody nose packed. I felt pretty good about
that. Almost good enough to offset the dull ache in my hand from where
his teeth had torn my knuckles up pretty good.
Mom practically
had kittens. She grounded me for a month, which didn’t make all that
much difference because there weren’t any other kids on our street
anyway. I spent the three days in my room reading G.I. Joe comics and
whispering dire and gory threats in Stevie’s ear late at night.
On
Friday, when my suspension was up, I got to school early. Mom was in no
mood for any shenanigans that morning — she’d said so: “I’m in no mood
for any shenanigans, Andrew” — so I got my bike out of the garage and
rode to school.
Most of the kids in my class either walked to
school or rode their bikes. A few took the bus. Rebecca was a bus kid.
She came in just as the first bell rang, the “no, seriously, go inside
and sit down so we can try fruitlessly to teach you something that will
keep you from growing up to be axe murderers” bell. She came in, opened
her Bionic Woman Trapper Keeper, got out a pencil.
“Hi, Andy,” she said.
I
was, at that moment, the stupidest kid in the world. Because instead of
just smiling, all cool, and saying something suave like “Hey, good
lookin’,” I stared at her slack-jawed and said, “What?”
She looked away, letting her hair fall in front of her face again.
“I mean, hi,” I said, scrambling like crazy. “Hi, is what I meant to say.”
And that’s when it happened.
She reached up with one hand, tucked her hair behind her ear, kind of glanced at me out of the corner of her eye … and smiled.
I
bet you think you know what’s coming. We passed notes in class, held
hands at recess, shared a stolen kiss under the mulberry tree on the
way home from school.
None of that happened.
The next
week, Rebecca wasn’t at school. I thought maybe she was sick. But she
didn’t show up the next week either. Or the week after that.
I
asked Mrs. Emerson. This was way before teachers had anything like
ethics or a sense of privacy. “Rebecca and her mother moved away,
Andrew.”
It was a total déjà vu moment. I got tunnel vision. The room spun. I felt dizzy.
Only that time, I got so sick to my stomach I thought I was going to throw up.
We’re
skipping ahead a little now, because the truth is nothing happened for
the next fifteen years. Well, not nothing nothing. I went to high
school, got my driver’s license, smoked some weed, lost my virginity,
graduated (a C-minus average is still passing, thank you very much),
got into a state school, pledged a fraternity, got my degree, got a
job, moved across the country. You know, life.
But none of it was really important.
I
guess one important thing happened. Not important by itself, but
important in the sense that it shapes the rest of the story. See, I
always wanted to be a writer. When I was a kid, I thought I wanted to
write comic books. By the time I grew up, I decided I wanted to write
screenplays, which are basically the same thing only with more money.
So
I got an English degree, which to my dismay had more to do with reading
than writing. And as soon as I threw my cap in the air, before the ink
on my B.A. could dry, I loaded everything I owned into half a dozen
stolen milk crates, packed them in my Honda hatchback and hit the road
for Hollywood, California.
Stupid? You better believe it. I
didn’t have the first idea what I was doing. For a week I actually had
to sleep in my car. Then I waited some tables at an all-night burger
diner in Westwood, made enough to move into a shithole in East Covina.
Life was pretty awful for a while.
But
then things changed. I met a UCLA kid who knew a guy who knew a guy who
got me a P.A. job at Warners. It was a rotten job, mostly delivering
script pages to D-list TV movie stars and getting coffee that no matter
how carefully I followed the instructions I somehow always managed to
mess up. And the money was actually worse than what I made waiting
tables.
But it was work, and it was steady, and it opened doors.
After
a couple of years, I scrabbled my way up the ladder a little bit. I
went from being a production assistant to a production associate, which
is basically the same job only they pay you a little more and yell at
you a lot more. Then I became a production coordinator, and so on, and
so on, and eventually I discovered that I’d gotten myself into a pretty
decent place. I was making enough money that I could afford both an
apartment and a car at the same time, which is a very big deal in L.A.
I had half a dozen screenplays in circulation among friends who swore
they used to be roommates with people who totally work with guys who
know agents. Once in a while, I managed to get into a decent party.
And that’s where it happened.
You
know those houses up on Mulholland, the ones over toward the 101 that
are nice but, you know, not that nice? There’s this producer who lives
over there. Not somebody you’d know, unless you’re in the habit of
reading the credits on unsuccessful TV pilots. But he knew people, and
the people he knew knew other people, so when he threw a party, it
wasn’t an entirely awful place to be.
The previous summer I’d
worked on one of this guy’s shoots, and I met a continuity supervisor
there who one time in the wee hours after an incredibly
out-of-proportion wrap party had drunkenly slurred to me that she would
totally sleep with me if she hadn’t decided to try being a lesbian for
a year to see how it worked out.
A few months later that
continuity supervisor started dating a make-up girl who knew a casting
assistant who lived with an executive assistant at a talent agency on
Sunset, you know the one I mean, and when the invitation to this party
trickled down I decided what the hell.
No, I didn’t take any of
my screenplays with me. But if I said I didn’t think long and hard
about it, you could call me a damn liar.
So we get there, this
house in West Hollywood that had probably sold for five million bucks a
decade ago but that wouldn’t go for more than one point five on the
market today. There are valets, of course, because God, how pathetic
would it be not to have valets? We go in, and it’s just your typical
vapid Hollywood scene. There’s a guy who was on “L.A. Law” for a few
years back when I was in grade school. There’s the girl who married
that big-shot producer and then divorced him when she caught him
casting-couching day-players for “Baywatch.”
And there, over in the corner at the bar talking to a suit in an unbelievably bad hairpiece, is Rebecca Galloway.
Rebecca fucking Galloway.
I
needed a drink, and I needed it bad, and the only way to get it was to
go over to the bar, but that’s the one place in this guy’s house I
can’t possibly go, because that’s where Rebecca fucking Galloway is.
Jesus Christ.
And
this suit. My God. Why do people like that even come to parties like
this? What is he, an insurance salesman? Does he really think he’s got
a snowball’s chance with Rebecca fucking Galloway?
His glass is
empty. He’s chewing open-mouthed on the ice. He turns to the bartender,
and that’s when I see it. That’s when I see Rebecca fucking Galloway
look desperately around for somebody, anybody to rescue her from this
putz.
Sometimes opportunity doesn’t knock, you know? Sometimes it just clinks softly at the glasses.
The
crowd parts for me like I’m Moses and it’s the Red fucking Sea. Next
thing I know I’m at the bar, and the bartender’s looking at me, and I
don’t even want anything any more, but I ask for a Makers on the rocks
and when she hears my voice she turns around and looks at me and
without even recognizing me she’s got this look of utter, blissful
salvation.
And then the moment’s gone, because the fucking
insurance guy’s got his martini-rocks and he actually says to her, “As
I was saying.”
God, who talks like that?
“Excuse me, is it … Reggie?”
I look around to see who said that, and realize it’s me. Like, again.
“Ronald,” he says, sticking out his hand.
“Ronald,
right. Listen, I just came from … over there” — I wave in the general
direction of, like, the entire party — “and … Ian was asking if
anybody’d seen you.”
“Ian?” he says. Then his eyes get big.
“Really?” He turns to Rebecca and pours on the charm. He’s all “Excuse
me, my dear,” and I want to laugh so badly I almost choke on my drink.
And
then he slides off his chair and wanders into the crowd and Rebecca
turns back to the bar and puts her head in her hands and say “Oh,
merciful God!”
She’s shaking. Christ, is she crying? What have I walked into the middle of here? I make half my drink disappear.
“Hey,” I say. “Hey. I … um. Are you okay?”
Hand
on her shoulder. Her bare shoulder. She’s wearing this
halter-dress-thing and it’s red and her shoulder has, like, nothing
covering it at all and then I’m touching it.
She reaches up with
one hand and tucks her hair back behind her ear, and God, I’m nine
years old again. There are tears streaming down her apple-red cheeks,
but not because she’s crying. She’s laughing so hard she can barely
breathe.
“Did you see that?” she stage-whispers between gasps. “Did you see that? I think that guy’s toupee was wearing a toupee!”
The
rest of my drink is gone, and I’m not sure where it went. “Yeah, sorry,
I didn’t mean to, like, interrupt you there. I could see you were
getting your mack on.”
“Oh, you read me like a book,” she says,
eyes sparkling like the room’s filled with a thousand candles. “But you
were just being polite, right? I mean, if Ian wanted to talk to him” –
“Yeah,” I say. “I mean, it must be important.”
“Right,” she says. “If it’s Ian it’s got to be important.”
“Right.”
“Who’s Ian?” she asks all innocent, setting me up and knowing I’m not just gonna fall, I’m gonna run right to the edge and jump.
“No
idea,” I say, and then she’s laughing, and I’m laughing, and when she
stops laughing she’s smiling, and I’m wondering where the nearest
mountain is, and whether it has glaciers on top.
“Excuse me,” I
call to the bartender, who’s been ignoring all this in a way that’s
nothing short of commendable. “Can we get … we’re gonna need” — I look
at Rebecca out of the corner of her eye and she’s smirking at me.
“Could we please have a lot more drinks over here?” I ask. “Thanks.”
Life
stories. Small town in Illinois. Yeah, I know that part, skip ahead.
Parents divorced when she was ten. Okay, that explains a lot. Bounced
around for a few years. Mom settled down and got a good job, moved them
into a house in the burbs. Junior high, made friends. Shopping at the
mall one day when all of a sudden there’s this guy with a business
card, and next thing she knows she’s in a soup commercial. She’s twelve
years old and she’s selling soup.
“You were a soup spokesmodel,” I say.
“Yes.”
“A soupsmodel.”
“Yes,” she says, draining her drink. “Can I finish my story now?”
“Not on an empty stomach,” I say, and I wave to the bartender making the universal gesture for another round.
“Big spender, huh?” she says, cracking an ice cube between her molars.
“Well, it’s an open bar,” I say.
She
just kinda stares at me for a minute, like she can’t believe what I
just said. “Big spender … huh?” she says slowly, carefully enunciating
around each word.
“Are you kidding?” I say. “Like you wouldn’t believe. I throw money around like there’s no tomorrow.”
“Good,” she says, stirring the swizzle stick in the drink that’s just appeared by her elbow. “Where was I?”
“Soupsmodel,” I say.
“Right. Anyway, so there I was, twelve years old, in a nationally televised commercial.”
“For soup,” I say.
“Reggie,” she says.
“Ronald,” I say.
She
smirks. “Clever. Okay, let’s do this the old-fashioned way.” She sits
up straight, sweeps her hair over her shoulder. I almost fall out of my
chair. She holds out her hand. “I’m Rebecca,” she says.
I almost
lose it then. I almost give it all away. But no, I hang on to it by the
skin of my teeth. “Andrew,” I say, taking her hand and never, ever,
ever wanting to let go.
And you know, she’s not exactly racing to let go of mine, either.
Moments
like that feel like they last a lot longer than they really do. We’re
talking like a second here, maybe a second and a half. In the movies it
would be at least ten seconds, long enough for the camera to push in
and the soundtrack to swell. But here, it’s two heartbeats, and it’s
gone.
“Andrew,” she says, “the soup isn’t really an important
part of this story. This story is going to continue, you see, and the
soup isn’t going to be a part of it. The soup, its purpose fulfilled,
is now going to exit gracefully to stage left. Okay?”
“Okay,” I say, and nobody has ever been in love like I am right now.
She
tells me the rest of the story. TV commercial at twelve, another one at
fourteen. Made enough money to tuck away for college, but hardly a big
break into stardom. A degree in broadcast communication, then after
college, the starry lights of the Hollywood way.
“So what do you do now?” I ask her, not giving half a damn, just wanting to watch her mouth as she answers.
Only she doesn’t. She sips her drink instead. “What do you do, Andrew?” she says.
“I asked you first.”
“I asked you most recently.”
And there it is again. That fire in her eyes. Have you ever stood beneath a 10,000-watt klieg light? That’s what it felt like.
“I’m a writer,” I say.
“Uh-huh,” she nods. “And what do you do when you need to pay the rent?”
“Well,”
I say, squaring my shoulders, “I don’t like to blow my own horn. But
I’m a pretty influential production coordinator at a … major motion
picture studio.”
“Really?” she gasps.
“I’m trying to keep it low-key tonight, though.”
“But you’re a very powerful man.”
“I don’t like to blow my own horn.”
“Is
that your way of saying you’re looking for somebody to blow it for
you?” she says. Her eyes go through me like spears, and I’m just a
wriggling fish.
“And what do you do?” I say, operating totally on autopilot at this point.
She
clears her throat, sips her drink again, blows a stray hair out of her
face, basically goes through a petit mal seizure of tics and quirks.
“Lately, mostly recording work,” she says.
“You’re a singer?”
“Only bad karaoke, and only when I’m so drunk I … come to think of it, I’ve never been drunk enough to sing karaoke.”
“Night’s still young.”
“And so are we,” she says.
“You’re changing the subject,” I say.
“I’m trying, but you’re not letting me. What happened to the suave, chivalrous gentleman who saved me from that awful wretch?”
“You forgot powerful.”
“No, I didn’t,” she says. “Not for a second.”
“You’re doing it again,” I say.
“And yet you’re still not letting me.”
I
just let that sit there for a second. Oh, sure, I could pretend I’m
being all cool. But the truth is my mind is completely and utterly
blank. I think I’m literally hypnotized. Any minute now, she’s gonna
have me clucking like a chicken. Or climbing a mountain for her.
Whichever comes first.
“Voiceover work,” she says. “Mostly.”
“You mean like … radio?” I ask.
“Sort of. Television.”
“Are you the girl in the monster truck commercial?”
“If that were the truth, I’d be about a million times less embarrassed than I am right now,” she says.
“It’s like pulling off a band-aid. Just tell me.”
“I dub cartoons,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
“I dub imported cartoons. From other countries.”
“Okay,” I say.
“Mostly from Japan,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
She kinda stares for a minute. “That’s it?” she asks. “Just ‘okay?’”
“Yeah,” I say. “What did you expect me to say?”
“I don’t know, something sarcastic.”
“I’m not sarcastic.”
“You’re incredibly sarcastic.”
“See what I did there? When I said I wasn’t sarcastic, I was being sarcastic.”
“Shut up.”
“Okay.”
For
what must be the fourth time, maybe fifth, her drink is empty. So’s
mine, but I forgot about it a long time ago. She’s playing with the ice
cubes, stacking up against the side of the glass with her swizzle then
knocking them down again.
“You want another?” I ask.
“No,” she says without really thinking about it. “It’s getting late.”
“It’s eleven-thirty.”
“I’ve got a call in the morning,” she says.
At
this point in my life, I want nothing more than to ask her, “Did I do
something wrong?” I’m a profoundly stupid man, but I’m smart enough to
know that that would be a mistake. So I just sit for a minute, not
saying anything, letting her not say anything, wondering whether this
is an uncomfortable silence or a comfortable one.
“It’s getting late,” she says again.
“Want me to walk you out?” I ask. Look, I’m doing the best I can here. Get off my back.
“No, that’s okay,” she says. She opens this microscopic little purse and pulls out her valet ticket.
“Give me your number.”
I look around, but who am I fooling. You’ve heard this joke before.
“What?” she asks, then immediately: “No.”
“Why not?” I ask.
“Because
I don’t give my phone number to strange men,” she says, fire in her
eyes. Fire like a thousand candles, fire like a 10,000-watt klieg lamp,
fire that gets inside my head and burns out every last vestige of
reason or self-awareness.
“I’m not a strange man,” I say to her. “We’ve known each other since we were nine.”
If this were an Old West saloon, the piano player just would have stopped.
“What?” she asks, hitting the T so hard I can feel her breath on my neck from three feet away.
“Rebecca Galloway, from Culverton, Illinois,” I say. “J.F. Pierce elementary. Mrs. Emerson’s class.”
She starts to get it.
“Andy?”
“Andrew now, but yeah.”
“Glows in the dark in her underwear,” she half-whispers.
“Yeah.”
“You kicked that kid’s ass.”
“Got suspended for three days for it, too,” I say.
“I remember,” she says.
“You do?”
“Like it was yesterday,” she says.
I just sort of roll that one around on my tongue for a second.
“I don’t, really,” she says.
“What?”
“Glow in the dark in my underwear. I don’t, really.”
“Oh,” I say.
“I just wanted to tell you that,” she says.
“Okay.”
“I don’t want you to be disappointed.”
Everything sort of goes into slow-motion.
“Are there glaciers on top of Mt. Everest?” I ask.
“I don’t think so,” she says.
“You sure?”
“No,” she says.
“Okay,” I say.
From somewhere on the other side of the house, about fifty people all laugh at the same joke.
“Give me a piece of paper,” she says. “Right now, right this second.”
I
fumble in my pockets. There’s a piece of paper, thank holy God above.
No pen. The bartender’s been listening to this whole thing, apparently,
because man, he is right there.
Her hands are shaking a little as she writes her number down. I think she thinks I don’t notice.
My hand’s back in my pocket now. It’s wrapped around that piece of paper like I might never let it go.
“I’m gonna call you,” I say.
“Good,” she says.
“Not tomorrow, though.”
“No?”
“No. I don’t want to be creepy. Not tomorrow. Not the next day.”
“Oh,” she says.
“Maybe this weekend.”
“I’ve got plans this weekend,” she says.
“Do you really?” I ask.
“Does it matter?” she says.
It doesn’t. She knows it, I know it. There’s no point in saying it.
“I’m gonna call you,” I say.
“When?” she says.
“Tonight,” I say. “As soon as I get home. Probably in the car on the way home.”
“Good,” she says.
She
doesn’t say anything else. Neither do I. I can’t think of anything. I
don’t know what her reason is. Anyway, she turns her body without
turning her head. She starts to walk away without looking where she’s
going. She bumps right into this guy. This actor. You’d know him.
Household name. Very, very important guy.
“Oh, excuse me,” he says, standing straight as an arrow and smiling at her like she’s the most important person in the world.
“Uh-huh,” she says, and just keeps walking.
There
wasn’t any point in staying at the party after that. I made an orbit
around the room, saying good night to some people I knew, who
introduced me to people they knew so I had to say good night to them
too.
I went through it all in a fog, with the stupidest grin on my face you’ve ever seen.
Then
I was at the door, making my way past people smoking cigars and
cigarettes and maybe something else. The valet was leaning against the
stand in one of those ubiquitous red jackets that seem to cover a third
of the population of L.A. at any given time. I fished my ticket out of
my pocket, gave it to him, waited while he pulled my old hatchback
around from the very, very remote spot where he’d parked it. I slipped
the guy a bill — I didn’t even look at it; it might have been a fifty
for all I know — got in, and drove off. Headed down Mulholland toward
the 405, windows open in the cool California night.
I didn’t
actually mean what I’d said. I didn’t actually mean that I was going to
call her from the car on the way home. But suddenly, looking out over
the glowing hills as I weaved my way down into the basin, I knew that’s
exactly what I was going to do.
I fumbled for my phone, got it out of my pocket, then reached for the piece of paper with Rebecca’s number on it.
It wasn’t there.
Checked my other pocket. It wasn’t there.
Checked every pocket. It wasn’t there.
That’s when it hit me.
I’d
had exactly one piece of paper in my pocket. Just one. And I’d given it
to her without looking at it. And she’d written her number down without
looking at it either. And then I stuck it back in my pocket without so
much as glancing at it.
And I didn’t look at it when I handed it to the valet, either.
She’d written her number down on my valet stub.
Son
of a bitch. Son of a bitch! I did everything. I yelled. I pounded the
steering wheel. I screamed curse words I hadn’t said since high school.
I think I made up some curse words.
Fifteen years. I’d been in
love with this girl for fifteen years. With absolutely no chance of
ever seeing her again, ever, in my entire life. And then I ran into her
by coincidence at a party I wasn’t even technically invited to.
And I lost her number.
There was just no way this was my life. There was no way this could possibly be real.
It just wasn’t fair.
For
a second, I seriously considered wrenching the wheel over and driving
right off the hillside. I was that angry. Angry at myself, angry at
life. Angry at everything that ever was or that ever would be.
It
wasn’t until I got halfway to Santa Monica that I realized what an
idiot I’d been. I don’t mean for losing her number. Of course that made
me an idiot. But the kind of guy who loses a girl’s number is just a
garden-variety, everyday idiot. Any of us could be that guy.
I was a much bigger idiot than that.
I
tore across four lanes of freeway traffic with just a cursory glance in
my rear-view. Horns and swears, blah blah blah. Blew through the red
light at the exit without realizing it, rolled through the red light at
the onramp without giving a damn. Then back on the freeway, pedal to
the metal, rocketing north toward the Hollywood Hills. Realizing that
was my mountain all along, and that if it didn’t have a glacier at the
top, at least it had a valet with a trash can full of used tickets next
to him. And I didn’t have to carve her name in it myself. It was
already there.
I weaved through traffic, screaming at the cars to get out of my way, laughing at the top of my lungs.
God, this is going to make a great story someday.
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There are some things that I want to do alone in life, that I feel that I can only do alone. Like sky diving, I need to sky dive by myself. It is the only way that I will get any validation for living.
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Thursday, May 31, 2007
Hurt
I hurt myself today
To see if I still feel
I focus on the pain
The only thing that's real
The needle tears a hole
The old familiar sting
Try to kill it all away
But I remember everything
[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt
I wear this crown of thorns
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Beneath the stains of time
The feelings disappear
You are someone else
I am still right here
[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt
If I could start again
A million miles away
I would keep myself
I would find a way
To see if I still feel
I focus on the pain
The only thing that's real
The needle tears a hole
The old familiar sting
Try to kill it all away
But I remember everything
[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt
I wear this crown of thorns
Upon my liar's chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Beneath the stains of time
The feelings disappear
You are someone else
I am still right here
[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt
If I could start again
A million miles away
I would keep myself
I would find a way
Saturday, December 23, 2006
mos def
lets say you were driving through a hurricane, and you come to a bus stop with three people. first one is an old lady, she just had a heart attack and must be taken to the hospital right away. the second one is your best friend, like he saved your life before. and the third one is the girl of your dreams. now your car can only fit one more person, who would you take with you?
I'm a fucking mystery to you aren't I?
With Minoo, I had someone to share secrets with, she would tell me her dreams and desires and I would listen. It was everything I had wanted with Anne, but I wanted more. I wanted Minoo's touch, no I take that back, I wanted any woman's touch. So I made the leap, and o boy did I fell. I fell hard, down, straight down into the abyss. So you think this would have taught me a lesson, to never open up unless I am absolutely sure with myself. Unfortnately, life for me doesn't always work that way.
Take Yedda for example, she's this girl I met a few years ago on some random chat room, actually I don't even remember where, she might not even be a girl with my luck. According to her she lives in beijing, and she works at a trademark/patent office. In her spare time she enjoys reading and long walks on the beach...no wait, where did that come from? She lives in my favorite city, Beijing, o yes, I do know that I've already mentioned that. So I want to meet her, and you think I would have learned from Minoo, never make a move unless you're absolutely sure you are not going to get burned. It isn't apprehension, but a precaution, something smart to keep you from ending up in dumb and vulnerable places. I asked her the other day whether it would be nice enough to meet up for coffee. And I dropped by the notion that it's funny, that perhaps we have walked side by side with each other in Beijing and both of us were none the wiser. So what would you do in my case, it's natural that she's cautious, but why did I play my hand?
Then finally, we come to Rene. I don't want to know what I feel about this girl, or why I spent so much time doing things for her. I wouldn't want her to feel like she owes me, but it almost seems manipulative on my part, to make her feel the way she does. She will forever remain in the category of "What might have beens" or "What could have happened", because I don't think it's desire that I feel with her. Flat out, it scares me to being alone with her, it is a fear that I have that I am unwilling to confront anyone more successful than me. Because I'm afraid of them exposing my own weaknesses. On the plane over here, a bored prison shrink came over and struck up a conversation about the different facets of geography and whether we were currently flying over water or land. I started to talk and he just stared intently in my face, to the point where his eyes became unnerving, as if they were dissecting my face, separating the muscle from bone. Finally, he said, "your glasses are crooked." Yes, I know, I know my glasses are crooked. I dropped them many times and I just fell asleep with them on. At that instant I stopped talking with the shrink, not because he pointed out my own faults, but I dislike people who point out faults in other people as if they were perfect, I suppose I hate the arrogance of it all. For me, the shrink reminded me of this girl in highschool named Jennifer Swisher. She would often come over to me, as we're eating lunch outside and goofing around, and look in my face, very much like the shrink, and say in a disgusted voice "your glasses are crooked". Yes thankyou for pointing it out, I don't have enough money to fix them.
It happens with almost every woman I have set my interests upon, I'm a smooth talker, though it may not seem so if you've ever met me in person. I choose my phrases carefully, and if it isn't the right time to say it, I wouldn't mumble a word. With some people, I get right to the point and say it until it hurts. I don't think I feel joy out of it, I'm not the type of person that revel in other people's unhappiness; and yet, on the other hand, I feel like I've achieved something when I've helped someone deal with their problem when they are explaining the situation to me. The doctor's code: You're never supposed to get close to your patients. Well, I have seemed to have developed an attraction to every girl I have ever listened to. It's dangerous, don't you think? Like Ali mentioned, I know everything there is to know about Ali, but I'm a fucking mystery to him.
No one knows who I'm really am. I like to be in control, so I won't let people discover who I am. Maybe it's all a game to me, I like being the mysterious one. Cloak me in shadows, never speak my name. With all of these women, I don't think I've ever shared anything personal to me that I haven't related to in their life. I've told millions of lies, in fact, I tell lies so often that it have become the truth in some cases, where I start to believe in my own lies and begin to second guess the truths. My memories are shot and my brain feels like swiss cheese, where 2001-2005 have become a mishmash of dates and specific events where nothing really comes together. I feel like I should be doing something or attending a class, only to snap awake and realize there is no class, I've never even signed up for it. When I dream, it feels so real...left unfinished for another day
Take Yedda for example, she's this girl I met a few years ago on some random chat room, actually I don't even remember where, she might not even be a girl with my luck. According to her she lives in beijing, and she works at a trademark/patent office. In her spare time she enjoys reading and long walks on the beach...no wait, where did that come from? She lives in my favorite city, Beijing, o yes, I do know that I've already mentioned that. So I want to meet her, and you think I would have learned from Minoo, never make a move unless you're absolutely sure you are not going to get burned. It isn't apprehension, but a precaution, something smart to keep you from ending up in dumb and vulnerable places. I asked her the other day whether it would be nice enough to meet up for coffee. And I dropped by the notion that it's funny, that perhaps we have walked side by side with each other in Beijing and both of us were none the wiser. So what would you do in my case, it's natural that she's cautious, but why did I play my hand?
Then finally, we come to Rene. I don't want to know what I feel about this girl, or why I spent so much time doing things for her. I wouldn't want her to feel like she owes me, but it almost seems manipulative on my part, to make her feel the way she does. She will forever remain in the category of "What might have beens" or "What could have happened", because I don't think it's desire that I feel with her. Flat out, it scares me to being alone with her, it is a fear that I have that I am unwilling to confront anyone more successful than me. Because I'm afraid of them exposing my own weaknesses. On the plane over here, a bored prison shrink came over and struck up a conversation about the different facets of geography and whether we were currently flying over water or land. I started to talk and he just stared intently in my face, to the point where his eyes became unnerving, as if they were dissecting my face, separating the muscle from bone. Finally, he said, "your glasses are crooked." Yes, I know, I know my glasses are crooked. I dropped them many times and I just fell asleep with them on. At that instant I stopped talking with the shrink, not because he pointed out my own faults, but I dislike people who point out faults in other people as if they were perfect, I suppose I hate the arrogance of it all. For me, the shrink reminded me of this girl in highschool named Jennifer Swisher. She would often come over to me, as we're eating lunch outside and goofing around, and look in my face, very much like the shrink, and say in a disgusted voice "your glasses are crooked". Yes thankyou for pointing it out, I don't have enough money to fix them.
It happens with almost every woman I have set my interests upon, I'm a smooth talker, though it may not seem so if you've ever met me in person. I choose my phrases carefully, and if it isn't the right time to say it, I wouldn't mumble a word. With some people, I get right to the point and say it until it hurts. I don't think I feel joy out of it, I'm not the type of person that revel in other people's unhappiness; and yet, on the other hand, I feel like I've achieved something when I've helped someone deal with their problem when they are explaining the situation to me. The doctor's code: You're never supposed to get close to your patients. Well, I have seemed to have developed an attraction to every girl I have ever listened to. It's dangerous, don't you think? Like Ali mentioned, I know everything there is to know about Ali, but I'm a fucking mystery to him.
No one knows who I'm really am. I like to be in control, so I won't let people discover who I am. Maybe it's all a game to me, I like being the mysterious one. Cloak me in shadows, never speak my name. With all of these women, I don't think I've ever shared anything personal to me that I haven't related to in their life. I've told millions of lies, in fact, I tell lies so often that it have become the truth in some cases, where I start to believe in my own lies and begin to second guess the truths. My memories are shot and my brain feels like swiss cheese, where 2001-2005 have become a mishmash of dates and specific events where nothing really comes together. I feel like I should be doing something or attending a class, only to snap awake and realize there is no class, I've never even signed up for it. When I dream, it feels so real...left unfinished for another day
Monday, December 11, 2006
Saturday, December 02, 2006
the beginning...
Perhaps I should make due to my promises and explain what exactly are the six realms which this blog is titled from:
1.) Realm of Hell: the lowest and worst realm, filled with demons and a black and bleak landscape. There isn't much to be said of this realm because there's nothing noticible there.
2.) Realm of the hungry ghosts: this is about as literal of a translation as I could get, in sanskrit it is called Preta-gati. Think of eternal starvation or unsatified cravings.
3.) Realm of the animals: realm of animals and livestock, characterized by stupidity and servitude.
4.) Realm of Asura: This is where things start to get interesting. This is a realm characterized by anger, jealousy, and constant war. Within the human self, the realm of Asura is most like that of humans, where they are partly good and partly evil.
5.) Realm of Humans: beings who are good and evil, enlightenment is within our grasp, yet most of us are blinded and consumed by our desires.
6.) Realm of Devas: Heavenly beings with godlike powers. "some say that because their pleasure is greatest, so too is their misery"
1.) Realm of Hell: the lowest and worst realm, filled with demons and a black and bleak landscape. There isn't much to be said of this realm because there's nothing noticible there.
2.) Realm of the hungry ghosts: this is about as literal of a translation as I could get, in sanskrit it is called Preta-gati. Think of eternal starvation or unsatified cravings.
3.) Realm of the animals: realm of animals and livestock, characterized by stupidity and servitude.
4.) Realm of Asura: This is where things start to get interesting. This is a realm characterized by anger, jealousy, and constant war. Within the human self, the realm of Asura is most like that of humans, where they are partly good and partly evil.
5.) Realm of Humans: beings who are good and evil, enlightenment is within our grasp, yet most of us are blinded and consumed by our desires.
6.) Realm of Devas: Heavenly beings with godlike powers. "some say that because their pleasure is greatest, so too is their misery"
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday
This line have been going around in my head for the past few days: "I don't want to complicate you"
It feels like it is a part of a song that I want to write, but I don't know what comes after for the next line. Something that fits, something that flows, sweet like candy across my soul. That kind of thing, yanno.
It was her popularity that I had wanted, I thought I could use her to get me into the world of indian girls. But Karim was right, whereas she have a choice and a reason, I have none. I should accept what was given to me, and move on. But I've always been a stubborn individual.
Met up with Daniella last night, she's leaving tonight, just in town for a business meeting. It is difficult to catch up on past things now, we spent the entire night reminicing, I felt like we should have talked about the future instead of the past. But once a conversation direction starts with Daniella, it's hard to change topic. She's a nice girl, but I would never like to get on her bad side in an arguement, because I will surely lose.
Listening to Hed Kandi - Disco Heaven mix instead of doing GIS work. I'm hungry.
It feels like it is a part of a song that I want to write, but I don't know what comes after for the next line. Something that fits, something that flows, sweet like candy across my soul. That kind of thing, yanno.
It was her popularity that I had wanted, I thought I could use her to get me into the world of indian girls. But Karim was right, whereas she have a choice and a reason, I have none. I should accept what was given to me, and move on. But I've always been a stubborn individual.
Met up with Daniella last night, she's leaving tonight, just in town for a business meeting. It is difficult to catch up on past things now, we spent the entire night reminicing, I felt like we should have talked about the future instead of the past. But once a conversation direction starts with Daniella, it's hard to change topic. She's a nice girl, but I would never like to get on her bad side in an arguement, because I will surely lose.
Listening to Hed Kandi - Disco Heaven mix instead of doing GIS work. I'm hungry.
Monday, November 27, 2006
Mona
Knowing if I could give you the sky and also the sea
But I don't think there's one thing in this world that'll make you notice me
Cause you can wield that sword in any direction, you damn well please
But you don't understand, that my heart is in your hands
And I'm beggin you not to squeeze.
Transfixed in her smile like the other fifty guys
She hypnotized, Guess I'm another stickler for pretty eyes
I minimized my obsession, never made the confession
Even evaded her presence at our graduation procession
It was a decision I later regretted
Wondering what I could have said and would it have swept her away if I said it
Step and Repeat and edit - my thoughts clashed
But I regained my lost chance the very day that we crossed paths again
I revelled in the opportunity, asked her to go dancing
Basking in this confidence that was new to me
It worked beautifully! A wild night became a quiet ride home
As I broke the silence her eyes roamed
7 years of frustration then hit her ears with abrasion
As I laced her with my tale of lust, tears and anticipation
Her reaction was a face of fakeness
Told me she was flattered, but within a tone lacking any amazement
It seemed she'd heard it all before
I realized then, her popularity is what I wanted her for
I tried to be strong as she hopped out the door
But even the hardest hearts break when they're dropped to the floor
Like Porcelain
But I don't think there's one thing in this world that'll make you notice me
Cause you can wield that sword in any direction, you damn well please
But you don't understand, that my heart is in your hands
And I'm beggin you not to squeeze.
Transfixed in her smile like the other fifty guys
She hypnotized, Guess I'm another stickler for pretty eyes
I minimized my obsession, never made the confession
Even evaded her presence at our graduation procession
It was a decision I later regretted
Wondering what I could have said and would it have swept her away if I said it
Step and Repeat and edit - my thoughts clashed
But I regained my lost chance the very day that we crossed paths again
I revelled in the opportunity, asked her to go dancing
Basking in this confidence that was new to me
It worked beautifully! A wild night became a quiet ride home
As I broke the silence her eyes roamed
7 years of frustration then hit her ears with abrasion
As I laced her with my tale of lust, tears and anticipation
Her reaction was a face of fakeness
Told me she was flattered, but within a tone lacking any amazement
It seemed she'd heard it all before
I realized then, her popularity is what I wanted her for
I tried to be strong as she hopped out the door
But even the hardest hearts break when they're dropped to the floor
Like Porcelain
Saturday, November 18, 2006
Winter Nights
I love winter nights, especially when the air is cold but not quite cold enough where it's nippy. Cold nights also equal another thing: lack of water vapor in the sky. cold air can't hold as much moisture as warm air does, which means clearer skies at night.
Last night was such a night, it was 12 when I came back from the Lightning game. My very first nhl hockey game, sat all the way up in the nosebleeds. We were six rows below the back wall, but can't complain, the tickets were free. So when I pulled up into the driveway, and looked up, I was absolutely floored. Someone had knocked out the streetlight in front of my house, so the scope of the view into the night sky was immense. To cite an example: normally, with decent light pollution, only the brightest and largest stars shine through. But last night, the span of the universe was open to my naked eyes, and there is so much to take in and be awed by the number of stars. no one really look up anymore. when was the last time one wished upon a shooting star? I suppose there's good reason to not to, you wouldn't want to make a wish to a satellite.
It's a good year for the Leonid meteors this year, and last night i spotted a couple shooting streaks before I went in to escape from the cold. For a while I lay back on the hood, put my jacket under my head, and just looked up. I suppose I zoned out a little bit from the reverie, but it was a reflective moment. last night was perfect, one of those nights where it wouldn't be so cold if one had someone with them. and then, i started thinking, maybe that's all i want. just someone to embrace, a friend or more, it doesn't matter, just someone to look up with. to be alone in this world is impossible, but it's very easy to become lonely. and when one becomes lonely, a person's gaze tend to be more focused downwards except upwards.
To go off topic a bit, I rediscovered this Vertical Horizon song that I took a shining to, listened it on the way to the river today:
"Everything You Want"
Somewhere there's speaking
It's already coming in
Oh and it's rising at the back of your mind
You never could get it
Unless you were fed it
Now you're here and you don't know why
But under skinned knees and the skid marks
Past the places where you used to learn
You howl and listen
Listen and wait for the
Echoes of angels who won't return
[Chorus]
He's everything you want
He's everything you need
He's everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
He says all the right things
At exactly the right time
But he means nothing to you
And you don't know why
You're waiting for someone
To put you together
You're waiting for someone to push you away
There's always another wound to discover
There's always something more you wish he'd say
[Chorus]
But you'll just sit tight
And watch it unwind
It's only what you're asking for
And you'll be just fine
With all of your time
It's only what you're waiting for
Out of the island
Into the highway
Past the places where you might have turned
You never did notice
But you still hide away
The anger of angels who won't return
[Chorus]
I am everything you want
I am everything you need
I am everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
I say all the right things
At exactly the right time
But I mean nothing to you and I don't know why
And I don't know why
Why
I don't know
____________________________
morae's for bellydancing
Last night was such a night, it was 12 when I came back from the Lightning game. My very first nhl hockey game, sat all the way up in the nosebleeds. We were six rows below the back wall, but can't complain, the tickets were free. So when I pulled up into the driveway, and looked up, I was absolutely floored. Someone had knocked out the streetlight in front of my house, so the scope of the view into the night sky was immense. To cite an example: normally, with decent light pollution, only the brightest and largest stars shine through. But last night, the span of the universe was open to my naked eyes, and there is so much to take in and be awed by the number of stars. no one really look up anymore. when was the last time one wished upon a shooting star? I suppose there's good reason to not to, you wouldn't want to make a wish to a satellite.
It's a good year for the Leonid meteors this year, and last night i spotted a couple shooting streaks before I went in to escape from the cold. For a while I lay back on the hood, put my jacket under my head, and just looked up. I suppose I zoned out a little bit from the reverie, but it was a reflective moment. last night was perfect, one of those nights where it wouldn't be so cold if one had someone with them. and then, i started thinking, maybe that's all i want. just someone to embrace, a friend or more, it doesn't matter, just someone to look up with. to be alone in this world is impossible, but it's very easy to become lonely. and when one becomes lonely, a person's gaze tend to be more focused downwards except upwards.
To go off topic a bit, I rediscovered this Vertical Horizon song that I took a shining to, listened it on the way to the river today:
"Everything You Want"
Somewhere there's speaking
It's already coming in
Oh and it's rising at the back of your mind
You never could get it
Unless you were fed it
Now you're here and you don't know why
But under skinned knees and the skid marks
Past the places where you used to learn
You howl and listen
Listen and wait for the
Echoes of angels who won't return
[Chorus]
He's everything you want
He's everything you need
He's everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
He says all the right things
At exactly the right time
But he means nothing to you
And you don't know why
You're waiting for someone
To put you together
You're waiting for someone to push you away
There's always another wound to discover
There's always something more you wish he'd say
[Chorus]
But you'll just sit tight
And watch it unwind
It's only what you're asking for
And you'll be just fine
With all of your time
It's only what you're waiting for
Out of the island
Into the highway
Past the places where you might have turned
You never did notice
But you still hide away
The anger of angels who won't return
[Chorus]
I am everything you want
I am everything you need
I am everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
I say all the right things
At exactly the right time
But I mean nothing to you and I don't know why
And I don't know why
Why
I don't know
____________________________
morae's for bellydancing
Friday, November 10, 2006
Back to square 1
Ok, so that didn't work. Last week, at a belated Halloween party, I got shot down by Minoo when I told her how I felt, or rather how I wanted to feel. I say how I wanted to feel because right now I just need somebody to hold, anybody to hold, any body to hold. It sounds mean of me to say it doesn't it? I suppose I don't deserve anyone right now for saying the words that I say. Well, some of this is my fault, I'm not very eloquent when I'm nervous, and I'm especially nervous when I'm around attractive women. So I don't think I got my point across when I told Minoo how I felt. Haha, it shocks me even to say this, but I don't want sex. If it comes with everything, then it's accepted, not rejected, but I'm not actively seeking it out. To make a point, when I go out with friends to the clubs, I don't carry condoms with me. All I want is physical contact, short of actual intercourse, just some kissing, and sleeping. Just the taste of a woman on my lips and my fingertips. Things like that. Yeah, I heard it too, for tonight I'm going to stop here. Another time then.
Wednesday, October 18, 2006
Minoo
Now that people have forgotten about this site, it is time to really start to update in here.
In a way, posting in here is more dangerous than my xanga site, because I don't have a blogger tracker like suhock. However, since the amount of people that I've told this to have been very low, I'm willing to take that chance.
So, by now you must know already, there's this girl named Minoo. I've known her for a few years now, though I can't remember how I started talking to her or who introduced her to me. I'm sure it was Bret, that is the only link that I know of. Anyway, things got interesting when I asked her to be my date for Paul's wedding, only I didn't think that it was a date. So while the reception party got interesting, Minoo and I started a walk on the beach, started in sunset, ended at night. I remember that night very well because it was a very beautiful day on Anna Marie Island, aside from the rotten fish left over from the red tide. There was a storm front just off the coast moving in, and as we were walking, one could see the head of the thunderstorm, sprouting bolts of lightning into the sea. So we're walking and we're talking, finally getting to a nice place where the sand just disappears into the water, and the sand comes together with the sky.
Something prevented me from making a move that night, I don't know if it was the lack of alcohol or just a simple act of cowardice. Ok, maybe I do know, it was something that I had said for the sake of conversation and to prod her feelings, to see where she stands. Do you know how different it would have been if I had made a move that night? And yet, regardless of the mess of emotions that I feel, regret isn't one of them.
I don't know why I feel this way. I am very attracted to her, except her arm hair, but I swear, that goes for all women. It's just a trivial thing of mine that I need to cast away. I am attracted to her like dew in the morning grass, and my mind loses its eloquence when I'm with her. And yet, I speak of the most idiotic of things. You should always end your sentences with a question, if you are trying to start a relationship with a girl. It will help to stimulate the conversation.
Sigh, I should get off and do something more productive. I want to whisper the words of Pablo Neruda to a girl's ear.
In a way, posting in here is more dangerous than my xanga site, because I don't have a blogger tracker like suhock. However, since the amount of people that I've told this to have been very low, I'm willing to take that chance.
So, by now you must know already, there's this girl named Minoo. I've known her for a few years now, though I can't remember how I started talking to her or who introduced her to me. I'm sure it was Bret, that is the only link that I know of. Anyway, things got interesting when I asked her to be my date for Paul's wedding, only I didn't think that it was a date. So while the reception party got interesting, Minoo and I started a walk on the beach, started in sunset, ended at night. I remember that night very well because it was a very beautiful day on Anna Marie Island, aside from the rotten fish left over from the red tide. There was a storm front just off the coast moving in, and as we were walking, one could see the head of the thunderstorm, sprouting bolts of lightning into the sea. So we're walking and we're talking, finally getting to a nice place where the sand just disappears into the water, and the sand comes together with the sky.
Something prevented me from making a move that night, I don't know if it was the lack of alcohol or just a simple act of cowardice. Ok, maybe I do know, it was something that I had said for the sake of conversation and to prod her feelings, to see where she stands. Do you know how different it would have been if I had made a move that night? And yet, regardless of the mess of emotions that I feel, regret isn't one of them.
I don't know why I feel this way. I am very attracted to her, except her arm hair, but I swear, that goes for all women. It's just a trivial thing of mine that I need to cast away. I am attracted to her like dew in the morning grass, and my mind loses its eloquence when I'm with her. And yet, I speak of the most idiotic of things. You should always end your sentences with a question, if you are trying to start a relationship with a girl. It will help to stimulate the conversation.
Sigh, I should get off and do something more productive. I want to whisper the words of Pablo Neruda to a girl's ear.
If You Forget Me by Pablo Neruda
I want you to know
one thing.
You know how this is:
if I look
at the crystal moon, at the red branch
of the slow autumn at my window,
if I touch
near the fire
the impalpable ash
or the wrinkled body of the log,
everything carries me to you,
as if everything that exists,
aromas, light, metals,
were little boats
that sail
toward those isles of yours that wait for me.
Well, now,
if little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you little by little.
If suddenly
you forget me
do not look for me,
for I shall already have forgotten you.
If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.
But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.
Sunday, September 24, 2006
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
In other news
My friend Sean tried to hook me up with his girlfriend's friend the other day. They asked me whether or not I was interested in a tall girl from the English Dept at HCC. As a joke, I ask them is she Indian. I think they took it the wrong way, at least Sean's girlfriend Justine did. She said something along the lines of "no, she's just plain, white girl." It's not like I prefer Indian girls over white girls, at this point, any dating is preferred. It's just that, while it's not a fetish or anything, I'm just attracted to everything there is about south asia and arabia. I love the food, the culture, the music, and the girls just came along as a bonus. I really don't have a preference on skin color, however, I think that's the way they took it as.
Justine's a good person, there's only one little thing that bugs me about her. We were feeding the alligators at Lowry Park Zoo, and one of the gators failed to swallow a chicken that was thrown at it's face. Justine shouted out "you retard, get the chicken." Now I know she isn't prejudiced in anyway, but some people may find offense to that comment, or better yet, the usage of that word. We were at a zoo, surrounded by an audience of children, and that isn't exactly something parents like to teach to their kids. Even worse, had there been a parent with a mentally retarded child watching, what would have been the reaction then?
Justine's a good person, there's only one little thing that bugs me about her. We were feeding the alligators at Lowry Park Zoo, and one of the gators failed to swallow a chicken that was thrown at it's face. Justine shouted out "you retard, get the chicken." Now I know she isn't prejudiced in anyway, but some people may find offense to that comment, or better yet, the usage of that word. We were at a zoo, surrounded by an audience of children, and that isn't exactly something parents like to teach to their kids. Even worse, had there been a parent with a mentally retarded child watching, what would have been the reaction then?
dammit
Damn, why do I still love her. Actually, let me take that back, I don't think it's love, and I don't want to call it an obsession because that's creepy and not what I'm aiming for. It's her presence, it just makes me go all gushy inside, and I lose whatever facade I had put up. I don't think it's love because I don't know her. She's only an acquaintance to me and I to her. I haven't felt about a girl like this since Anne.
Maybe it's all a horrible little game my mind is playing on itself. Maybe I'm taking things out of perspective, and I should move on. But each time I see her face again, I'm placed back into this little hell of mine.
Maybe it's all a horrible little game my mind is playing on itself. Maybe I'm taking things out of perspective, and I should move on. But each time I see her face again, I'm placed back into this little hell of mine.
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